Thanks Simon. Your piece really spoke to me today. I definitely have an “anxious attachment” with time. The way you talked about it also reminded me of this Japanese concept:
“Mono no aware (物の哀れ), lit. 'the pathos of things', and also translated as 'an empathy toward things', or 'a sensitivity to ephemera', is a Japanese idiom for the awareness of impermanence (無常, mujō), or transience of things, and both a transient gentle sadness (or wistfulness) at their passing as well as a longer, deeper gentle sadness about this state being the reality of life.”
Thanks Rian. Those all really great encapsulations of it! I think, like attachment styles in general, we will be anxious on some days and want indepence and space on other days. Same with time. 🙏
Thanks Simon. Your piece really spoke to me today. I definitely have an “anxious attachment” with time. The way you talked about it also reminded me of this Japanese concept:
“Mono no aware (物の哀れ), lit. 'the pathos of things', and also translated as 'an empathy toward things', or 'a sensitivity to ephemera', is a Japanese idiom for the awareness of impermanence (無常, mujō), or transience of things, and both a transient gentle sadness (or wistfulness) at their passing as well as a longer, deeper gentle sadness about this state being the reality of life.”
Thanks Rian. Those all really great encapsulations of it! I think, like attachment styles in general, we will be anxious on some days and want indepence and space on other days. Same with time. 🙏